National Dating Advice –

Imagine for a moment that you find yourself faced with a decision to make in regards to what you will be doing for the night; on the one hand you had already scheduled to go out on a first date with a woman who you met sometime back and in the other you have the opportunity to go to a very important, high-stakes game with your friends.

The easy answer is to call the woman up and see if you can reschedule for another day, but doing so involves some risk or maybe you tell your friends no and continue with the first date as planned.

In this piece, I will discuss the pros and cons of each choice and why ultimately the best choice for you to make more than likely will be to go to the game with your friends.

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Now, that I have already revealed which choice I believe is the best, lets first discuss the pros and cons of going out on the date with the woman.

The good news is you kept your commitment and don’t have to worry about rescheduling or even letting her know about your opportunity to watch that game in person. The bad news, considering that this is a first date there are no guarantees that she will keep her commitment or, for that matter, end up being good company.

Also, regardless if you realized it, you will have placed a certain amount of invisible pressure on her to actually be better than what you imagine the game to be, which means if she isn’t an extraordinary woman in all the right ways you will spend more time thinking about the game than you actually will on her. This isn’t even taking into consideration the fact that whatever the two of you do decide to do on this first date hopefully doesn’t show the game on TV.

So far, all I’ve really talked about is you. Let’s talk about her for a moment.

In your mind, what kind of woman would you want to be with in either the long or short term? The kind of woman who doesn’t like sports, doesn’t get sports or doesn’t want to be with the kind of man who would want to go to a that game rather than spend time with her? OR, the kind of woman who would understand that sports and going to these games are something that a man likes to do and is okay with you going with your friends in order to do so?

Since you have read this far, odds are you want the second kind of women who will be okay with you going to see your favorite team play. 

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Do you want to know how you find a woman like the second one?

By calling her up and telling her that you have to reschedule your date because you have the opportunity to go watch a game, that’s how.

Do you want to know how you attract the first kind of woman?

By showing up for your date with her and either pretending like the opportunity to go the game was never a reality or telling her how you passed on the opportunity to go to the game in order to be with her.

Interestingly enough, a lot of women out there can be either woman as the decisions you make in the beginning of the two of you getting to know each other play a role on the expectations the two of you have.

Hopefully, by now you have already begun to realize why going to the game with your friends is the choice you must make no matter what kind of relationship you are looking for with a woman.

In the end, as a man, it’s about knowing what you want in life and what you are willing to risk in order to get it. Why? Because the less you risk the less you get.

–National

ladiesmanhenry said:That's true…i like whatcha write…it's meaningful…

Thank you, Henry.

It's insightful, useful information that I like to share with others. These are based from past experiences of mine, and I've got more helpful bits that'll help men stay self-sufficient with the ladies. Life with females can throw you curveballs and sliders. I've lived through enough experiences over the last decade and I want people to get a head start so that their sex lives can be spunked with adventures. There will be times where I'll be quite outlandish and other times I'll go very light with the audience (just like I did with this advice about choosing the game over the girl).

–National